Marsha Posner Williams, Part 2 | Golden Girls, Hail to the Chief and Sherman Hemsley's Amen

Eighties, So pretty eighties to the city. Welcome back to part two of our interview with Marsha Posner Williams. If you want to start with part one, go back to the previous episode and take a listen, or you can start right here, because every story is amazing, all right, So they meet your conditions. Right, And so we came I came back. Hail to the Chief was just like soap, tons and tons of characters, continuing story.

Seven of the funniest episodes I've ever worked on. SO nineteen eighty five, also created by Susan Harris, Patty Duke, ted Heat that'sl Quinn Cummings, correct, Murphy Hamilton, Yeah, yeah, And it's the soap at the White House with a female president, correct. And she becomes president sort of because the VP, I mean the president. I don't even remember how this wasn't important. It was just that she was the president.

Her husband was a philanderer. And but I will tell you when we went to shoot the first episode, the executive in charge of production named Harry, he came in to me right before we were going to shoot it and he said, we've. Got a problem. We got a problem. We're going to start shooting like half an hour, and they are like six or eight nuns in full habits, sitting in the front row or the big front of the audience.

You got to go tell them that they probably want to leave. I said, not my job. I'm not going to do it. I'm not going to do it. So he had to go talk to them and say, we're not sure that you know exactly what this show is, and we want to give you a chance to leave now before you are just embarrassed.

And you know, anyway, they left, and the. First scene of the show took place in. Like the Lincoln bedroom something like that, and it opens up and you see the bed and there's obviously somebody under the cover's bodies rolling around right, and then a guy pops his head up, who was a young Latino guy, all disheveled. And then Quinn Cummings playing the daughter, she pops up and she's completely disheveled, and he says, so, how was it, and she says, well, it was everything I had hoped it would be. It was everything I had dreamed it would be, only faster.

That's how it started. So it's a good thing they weren't there, and we. Went off from it, thinking one of those nuns and snuck back in but up the habit snackag But it was Marcia. Yeah, they want did they want you to talk to nuns because you were a woman and they thought it might come and they and just didn't want to deal with it, or. They wanted me to deal with it, he said, nom a jew, I'm not going to deal with it.

No, no, I don't know. And so was there any controversy around Hail to the Chief? No, No, not that, not that I recall. Ted was a philanderer, as I said, but it wasn't as bad quote en quote as soap. Do you know the story of how that show came about?

Because I'm fascinated because it was female driven. Yes, Kate Duke and the president female president. Maybe that would never happen. Yeah, well clearly still not ready for that. Don't blame me.

I voted for her, so yeah, yeah, no I don't because I was doing Night Court at. The time, so I wasn't privy to that. How did it feel working on a show with Ted Bessel since that girl was was so important to you when you were growing up, how was that? It was wonderful? I mean full circle right, it was absolutely joyful.

I love the whole cast. The who was it that played the dual role. I'll think of it later. He was in It's a Mad Men Me med World, and he was so funny in that show. Remember that movie was so great and he played the mother, he played the son of.

I'm Coming, Mama, I'm Coming Mama. I highly recommend you watch that show. That movie. It's about movie. Yeah, it's iconic, iconic.

Yeah, Richard quotes that. My husband quotes it alone. Yeah, it's funny. I remember the big W. That's the thing for me.

That and guess what that W I'm going to see next month because it's on the Allan of Kawhi at the Wile High. Oh and they have a big Yeah, I'm going to next month. Okay you see Oh, okay, herschel Bernardi, herschel Bernardi and no, but then I can see his face. He died in real life. He died doing his one man show on stage.

Who else is in the cast, Dick Seawan, Dick sewn It, Okay, that's it. Yeah. Yeah, he was amazing, so insecure, but so amazing, so funny. A lot of actors are insecure. Yeah, yes they are.

So you're wrapping up Hail to the Chief and you're saying it was always intended to just be seven episodes, Oh oh no, it was to go on. Yes, but it was extremely ABC build advertise that show as the show that would offend everybody. Seven of the funniest episodes I've ever seen, and there were a lot of controversial things in. It, but hilarious. I mean, yeah, you know, if we just stopped taking each other so seriously, this could be really funny.

So anyway, but it was while I was doing hal to the Chief when they started casting The Golden Girls. So that's how that transition happened. Okay, Haldo the Chief went down and immediately the Golden Girls was in my lap. So that's how that happened. And did you have any conditions for going on The Golden Girl.

No. One of the five conditions was I'm not coming back to do seven episodes because I could do twenty two with Night Court, So pay me for fifty two weeks even if everything gets canceled or I'm not interested. So fortunately for them, one show led right into the next. Well they hadn't, They had enough shows going They go. You gotta keep all their shows going.

So Golden Girls, yes, I've heard of it. So when did you come on to Golden Girls? Then, well, we did the reshoot of the pilot without Coco. Okay, all right, so can you talk about that? So they shoot a pilot with Cocoa?

Right then they realized that a stell Getty basically it's going to become a more. Yeah. She was supposed to be just a guest star. Yeah right, and she was so strong that Jay Sandrich and they all just agreed better with just the four of them, they don't need the fifth guy. I've never felt sorry for an actor in my life life, but that guy because it wasn't his fault.

Yeah, he didn't do anything wrong. He didn't do anything wrong. And I've seen I've done pilots with actors who got fired after day three at the lead. I mean, that's terrible, but that's because they weren't good enough. I mean, remember when.

You cast somebody, you could cast them right here in this office and you think they're fabulous, But when you put them on a fourteen thousand foot square square foot stage with four cameras in their face, they may turn into this whole other person and be scared whatever, and it doesn't work and you never see the person you saw here on that stage and that I've seen that happen a few times. But he did great job. Charles Levin, Yes, thank you playing Coco the gay housekeeper house polls boy. Yeah. Yeah.

And it wasn't his fault, yeah, because they basically were just like, oh no, we can there's rumor that he was He was even added because they were a little worried about an all female show. I don't know that. Okay, I wasn't there. You weren't there for that. I weren't there for that.

No. I'm also I also found out we just covered facts of Life, and I didn't realize facts of Life was moved to Saturday night and became the lead in for the opening of The Golden Girl. Really, and do you know about the actual opening of the show, the main title opening of the show. I heard that you might have had something to do with it. The iconic theme song.

I do want to ask you about Cindy E v. Cindy F. So I would love to know about the theme song and the opening credit. So I was there when she sang the song. I was in the studio.

She did it in one take, and after one take she said, Okay, you got it, and Tony said, no, no, you got to do it again. We need at least two. And I mean, I understand that you always because you never know, right, you have to have at least two. But she did it in one take. And good for her because she put her children to college on that one song.

Right, Yeah for her. So we were about four episodes in but not on the area yet, and Tony said to me one day, you know, we've been taking these meetings with main title companies who pitching all kinds of things, flying the ladies to Miami and. Blah blah blah blah blah all this. He said, nothing and twenty five thousand, thirty thousand, forty thousand to do a main title for He said, nothing's tweaking our propellers. You know, nothing at all.

And I said, well, we know what the song is, obviously. Let me take the raw footage of four episodes and go into an edit bay for a day and let me just you know, screw around with it. He said, you go, go go. You know, I'm not an editor, but I know music and I know and I like picking clips because I did it on soap all the time, and frame for frame, what I came out with has been on the air for forty years at had costed of about twenty five hundred bucks. Did you get to pocket the rest of it?

Because I that is amazing? Yeah, that is, and because you know television by this point you knew what you were doing. But also remember, and Tony was very right about this, the main title doesn't sell a show, and especially nowadays, you watch it once and then it's skip intro, skip intro, skip intro. Right, But that is the only thing that gets me truly emotional about that show. If I see that main title, I think about all that went into it and the story behind it is remarkable.

That is that is remarkable. I was going to ask, do you know how they picked the song or how that song? Because it was I believe it was a hit song before was it? Did it become a hit song afterwards? It wasn't.

It was a hit song before what's his name recorded it? That I oh, yeah, yeah, I know it if you told me, but I don't recall right. Now, it's not Harry Nilsen, is it? No? Okay?

And I have to tell you a funniest side story. A couple of years ago, my husband and I went to Chicago because you know what the second city is, right, Okay, Well, I was their guest speaker and it was a really phenomenal experience for me to be able to do that. And we said, oh, we're going to go to Chicago. Let's see if the Cubbies are playing Chicago Cubs. So they were.

We got great seats and we're sitting there before the game started and talking to a couple guys sitting to the left of my husband, who's sitting to the left of me, okay, and they're playing music over the speakers, and all of a sudden, what starts to play, not the Cindy fe version, but the song thank You for Being a Friend. And my husband turns to these two guys and says, do you know what that song is? And a guy said, oh, yeah, that's a theme from the Golden Girls. And my husband points to me and says, my wife produced the first three seasons of the Golden Girls. And the guy's eyes popped out of his head and he leaned across my husband and said to me, you know you're a gay icon, right, And I said yes, and I wear the title prow.

Is that funny? That is? It wasn't even the Cindy Fee There was no not even words. It was just the melody it was playing. Wasn't that funny?

And it was written and recorded by Andrew Gold That's right, Andrew, And yes, yes, that is amazing. That song is amazing. That opening credit sequence. And as a person who grew up in the eighties, the opening credit sequence were important because they carry a lot of resonance now, right. And I think Sharon and I talk about missing them a little bit, Like I liked that the Game of Thrones had an opening credit sequence and music that became iconic to it.

I kind of missed them, and I definitely missed the songs. So that's one of the reasons I wanted to have her on. I'm very excited about those songs and those song writers and song singers. Great cool, all right, so you're coming on Golden Girls. You fixed the opening credits, you saved them twenty two thousand dollars.

It sounds like this was a hit almost from the first taping, Like you knew it was resonating with audiences. It was it was. There was nothing like it on TV, and as soon as it hit their waves, you know, you never know. It doesn't matter what the ratings are in the first week, does not matter, right because everyone tunes in to see what it is. Week three is what tells you if the show.

Is going to be a hit or not. Okay, makes sense, mm hmm. Yeah. So we knew by the end of the third fourth week that something crazy was happening because there was a lot of press starting to happen. The ladies were so iconic, the three, especially you know, Stell came from just off a Broadway, so nobody really knew her.

But I said to Stelle, don't you because the other ladies were getting more publicity than her, And she voiced it to me one day. I said, Estelle, be patient, you wit, It's all going to happen for you. I guarantee it. Just be patient. And that's what happened.

Yeah, that's it. I mean, she became as iconic as the other three who had been on television for forever, forever. Yeah, and to this day, people still don't know that she was the second youngest of them. All that being funny, the ages and the whole age thing is very insane. Right, Well, we had a four thousand dollars human hair wig on our head, so that helped a lot.

Yeah, yeah, I hope somebody treated that preciously. Yeah, it was very unfortunate that she passed away of Alzheimer's and we didn't know back in those days, the mid eighties, what was dementia, what was alsheimer's. But she had a lot of trouble. It's not a secret. She had a lot of trouble remembering her lines.

And her lines were written all over that set, All over that set, every cupboard, every table, every everything had her. Lines were written on her hand. Oh yeah, yeah, that's where we had to give her that note to wash your hands, because when we did the early show, we taped every show twice five o'clock and seven. Thirty, and you tape both shows with an audience. Yes, okay, and then we did it the best of both together.

So we had to tell her to wash her hands because she made a gesture and we saw the line written our hand, like, excuse me, that's not going to work. So yeah, that must have been very hard. That's hard when another cast member is enabled to that. That's hard on the other cast members. It's hard in a sitcom when you're moving so quickly.

Right, But by the time I left, we were doing que cards for her. Okay, yeah, And did it cause attention or were people understanding? Well? The ladies were so professional. I mean, we know the controversy between Bee and Betty.

Yeah, I do want to ask you about that. But it was tough because we didn't know what it was and we'd be at a reading on a Monday. We don't shoot it till Friday. I remember specifically what the line even was. And the table reads were so much fun because the scripts were so good, especially in those early days, right, and we and Estelle just stops the reading and says, I'll never remember that line.

And the director says, it's so funny a Stelle. It's not going to change for five days. No, But that's how difficult it was. It was sad, yeah, but she she was a trooper boy, and she pulled it off for seven years, right. Well, which is you know when you think coming from the theater, oh, you can memorize anything, but you're not doing different shows.

That's right. That's why it was so much easier doing theaters. The same lines every day, every day for you lock it in years exactly? Sure. Can I ask a question about the wig?

Yes? Do you remember did jose Norman? Did the wig have no clue? That's all the hairdresser asked Joyce Melton? Oh, Joyce was your okay?

So it wasn't to say I just went yeah. Joyce Melton was the head hairdresser. Thank you. Yes, I'm soap too, okay? And then so it was there is It is sort of famous that b Arthur did not really like that he white.

Well, let me put it to you this day. Those two couldn't warm up to each other if they were cremated together. Does that kind of tell it to you in a sentence? And was it just the personality? Could it have been resolved?

No, okay, I don't think so. But remember they were so professional that the second that red light went on, they were the consummate professionals. B came from the theater. B was a theatrical actress, despite all the success she had on TV, which we know was a lot, right, B, don't forget, was a marine. She drove trucks in the Marines, and she was a tough broad right, So when we would do in front of an audience.

We would shoot a scene and then okay, moving on, and they would go to do a wardrobe change or just move to the next set. Betty would sometimes break character and go talk to the audience and be hated that. Hated that because theater that's not allowed. You don't do that. You know, it breaks the rhythm to her, you know, it's kind of yeah, and okay, I get that, I get that.

But again they I'll tell you, you know, my husband shot some very iconic pictures of the ladies and I don't know if you remember in your research if you found that the old show This is Your Life with Ralph Edwards did a surprise to Betty White. Okay, this is your life, Betty White. And when they when that show contacted us about doing that. We then went to the ladies except for Betty, of course, to say will you help us pull off the surprise? And of course of Stelle said yes, and Ruth said yes, and Be said, not a chance, not going to do it.

So the executives went to my husband and said, Wayne, please talk her into it. Make it so it's a photo shoot something really fast and you'll be there because she loves you, and so Wayne is the one that got it to happen. And so during this quote unquote fake photo shoot, all of a sudden, Ralph at George walks in and he has the perfect shot right when Betty was surprised, which I'll show you later. Oh my gosh. Yeah all right, so he's he's kind of the bee whisperer.

Yes, yes, yeah. She actually called the house one day and said, Wayne, I just bought a brand new BMW and the cassette player doesn't work. I need you to come over to my house. She doesn't live anywhere near us, but he went to her house. He said, okay, b what's the problem.

And my husband is a tech genius. Okay. So sat in their. Car, she said, okay, here's the cassette. She puts it in, she said it doesn't play.

He said, okay, let's turn the car on, and she gave him the b Arthur look and he said, you know, should I leave now? Yes, get out of my car. Yeah that look that's fantastic. Yeah, we know that look very well. How did rue McClanahan navigate legate the tension between the other Betty and be.

Easily easily It was easy really because it wasn't terribly blatant. Sometimes it got out of control. The script supervisor could tell you more about that than me, because she was on stage the whole seven years with the Wonderful Ladies. But and I hear things secondhand sometimes. But it was fine.

That lasted seven years. But it's because Beide said no way to an eighth year. It was because of that that the show did not come back for an eighth year. The other three said yes, well let's keep going, and be said, no chance. She was done, and that's when Golden Palace was born, which we know what happened there.

Yeah. Now were you part of Golden Palace? No? No, I was gone? Was gone?

You were gone. Yeah. So it's interesting because I'm wondering if you ever worked with two male actors who kind of didn't like each other. Oh, that's an interesting question. I don't think so.

No, there was never tension on set between two male actors that you were shows you were on. No, I don't think so. I no, Okay, oh I think she did? You just think of something? I thought of a great story on the show I did with Danny Thomas called One Big Family.

But it wasn't tension, but we had an actor on the show who would throw tantrums once in a while, and how what happened on a particular day that it's quite the story, a great story. You'd have to probably edit it out, but it's a great story. You better tell us off the air, because I will make a note. Yeah, yeah, just say one big family, one big family. Yeah, it's a great story.

It's a great Marsha's story. Listeners, I have a whole list of things to ask later. I'm sorry we can't include you, right, but there's so much. I asked that question because it you know, we hear a lot about, you know, the ladies of the eighties and their relationships, and I sometimes think that women are judged more harshly for their behavior, for them being quote unquote difficult on set than men are. Well in front of the camera, behind the camera.

Yeah, I mean, you could ask me if I ever been a victim of a me too movement experience, and I would say to you, I've never been a victim of anything. I've had those experiences. But you already know me for ten minutes. You know I can handle myself, right, Yeah, And I have had those experience ch answers that I would say most women would have not been able to handle the way I did because I got a mouth on me and a brilliant sense of humor. I think it right when I need it.

And so yeah, that's stories for Off for Off. Yeah, we're make a note right right right for me too, Just write me too, because the stories are quite remarkable of these guys who try to pull something off and I stopped them in their tracks in the best way. Yes, it's hard to believe that there haven't been instances across the depth and breadth of Hollywood where male co stars did not get along, But there doesn't seem to have been the same expectation for them to be able to get along in the same way it is for women. You've got four women on the show, Supposedly they're best friends in real life, just as they are on the show, even though they're acting as their job to pretend to be best friends on the show.

And when men are on shows and they're supposed to be best friends and maybe they get along, maybe they don't, there isn't doesn't seem to be the same expectation that they're also you know, fast friends and seeing each other and you know, running around together as friends outside of when they're not working. But we'll just chalk it up to everything. Else exactly exactly how we navigate those things, right. Do you think it was more difficult for you to rise up in the rinks of producer or break in And we talked about that a little bit because you were a woman. Looks like we have to take a break, We'll be right back.

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But I never thought of it that way, and it was only until those little me to movement things happened that I, oh, my goodness, look at these guys, thinking they're all that, but they're not, which made me laugh. Yeah, seriously, Now, did you work on any of the Golden Girls international versions? I was gone, you were gone? Okay, so you left Golden Girls? Yes, and you went.

Let's see, I did a show called I started working at? What show? Did I do at Paramount with? Oh? Yes, I did, amen, Oh yes, yes, okay, yes, I loved Sherman.

I loved that cast. But I can tell you here we go again. I did the third season of that show. I started at the very beginning of the third season. I was the fifth producer in the job because the executive producer was such a piece of work and had quite the reputation that the girl who had the job to producers before me left with the bleeding altar and her hair was falling because she did not know how to handle this guy.

He was He was the walking reason for twin beds. Of course, but I. I found a way, Yes, yes, And I will tell you one great story about this guy. That we were in a camera blocking run through. Okay, so we're in the booth, the cameras are there, and he used to pace back and forth behind the director.

It was terrible that he did that. And I was sitting in the row right behind them. Okay, so you picture that the front row. He's pacing between us. Right.

So they're doing the rehearsal. An actor misses a line, flubs a line, and he takes his script and goes, god, damn it and hits me right on my hand and I yelped, and he never. Said a word to me. Next day, tape day, the front row is there. Nobody else is there, but the front row's getting ready for rehearsal.

Before the audience comes in. I walk in. They all look at me and they said, Marsha, please don't do it. He's going to fire you. Please.

We love having you here, everybody loves you. Please don't do this. He's going to fire you. And I had a pair play deal, so I didn't care. I mean do you fire me after day one?

You got to pay me for twenty two episodes, right, So I said, look, a girl's got to do what a girl's got to do. And I took my place and I sat down, and in he walks, and he comes over and he says to me, what are you doing? And I said, well, yesterday you hit me and you hurt me, so today I'm ready take your best shot. And I was sitting there in a full catcher's outfit and he didn't talk to me the rest of the day, but he didn't fire me. So girl's got to do what a girl's got to do.

Absolutely, yeah, he was. I mean I saw him, you know, put his fist in the wall, kick a table, chase a runner down the stairs, throwing things up, you know. Yeah. It takes all kinds, right, yeah, but you know, yeah, but that behavior, you know, I don't know. Brilliance has no excuse for bad behavior, no right.

And I will tell you that he co created the Cosby show. He was making so much money when I was working with him, so much money. But I heard, and I'm pretty sure it's true that after they shot the pilot of Cosby, Cosby went to NBC and said, either he goes or I go. So the guy had a reputation. I'm not talking out a turn.

The guy had fifth. I was the fifth person. Really yeah, really yeah. So but you stayed on Amen just for a season. Okay, I can only take one season.

I said, think of it like a kidney stone. It'll pass. It'll pass every day. I'd say that be painful, but it'll pass. So after twenty two I said, I'm out.

Now you worked briefly, at least according to IMDb, what I do on It's a Living. I did the pilot. You did the pilot. Yeah, okay, we've talked about It's a Living on this show. We had on Angelian No close.

We were close. She was going to then she said no. You know, there's a number of women that we get to and then they get nervous and they start to say, well, I don't know, I don't I don't want to talk. And I think, you know, I think that sometimes sometimes women have are more afraid to say to tell their story, and it's just easier to not. I don't have that problem.

No, you do not. I appreciate that so much. We talked to Paul Krepple because every guy will come on our show. Yes, I have no problem. He's great, he's he was delightful.

And you're talking about working with Jay Johnson. Yes, and winning a Tawny on Broadway show, which is an astonishing show that Jim does. Astonishing. I've seen it five times. Oh my gosh.

Okay, I have not seen it, but I did hear about it. How was that? How was that working on the pilot of this show? That was great? Yeah, it was funny.

It was fun. No, and I'm kind of glad I didn't do this series because I was doing other stuff, which I don't remember at this time, but I did after I am in. Then I started working at that was at Paramount. Then I started working at twenty Century Fox, and I worked. I did a lot of stuff there for like seven or eight years before I Then I did a pilot for CBS, and then I got out.

And what made you decide I'm done? I wasn't having fun anymore. I didn't. I'd already done close to four hundred episodes. And I remember saying to Wayne, look, I know you're an artist and that's a tough life and everything, but we're gonna pay off our house.

I'm out. I just wasn't having any fun anymore. So I've been retired for like twenty two years, but it sounds like you've been keeping busy. I'm very busy. Yeah, because I do college lectures.

And that's the joy of my life, which I know is the thing you were going to talk about. That's the joy. Yeah, So that's what's giving you joy is college lectures. And do you talk about different things? Do you have a sort of a set thing that you talk about.

It's always the kids who want to get in the business. And because of my story of coming from nothing right and all that which you've heard, they realize what's possible. Because I'm not preaching from a book. I pull no punches, I swear like a sailor, and I bring my sense of humor as you know, and they and inevitable. There's one person in every class who says to me, you just change my life because I give them.

I tell them, despite everything, I'm the most encouraging and inspiring and motivating person they've ever met in their life because I went through it okay. And the first thing I always ask them is how many of you have parents who don't want you to get in this business, and half the hands go up right, And then I tell them how to think about that, what to think about that while I'm swearing along the way, and it changes their life because then they think now, it's almost like giving them permission to think a different way, to have a dreamy Yeah, yeah, dreams have no deadlines. Okay, that's a quote from Mellow cool J. I'll give him credit for that. It's a great quote.

But again, as I said to you at the beginning, when I say to them, do you want to go through life wondering? What if it's not gonna feel very good? So why? And you can't fail ever, unless you never try in the first place. If you try it it doesn't work out, that's called it just doesn't work out.

Even if it's a relationship, you try it, if it doesn't work out, that's not a failure. Take that word out of your life. It just doesn't work out. It just doesn't work out. But you can say I tried.

That's a badge of honor. I tried. That's the way I look at it. That's my opinion, and I'm sticking to it. I love that.

So what has changed your life? What has changed my life? Well, which moment was it that made you go. Well, it was when I got the call from MGM and I said, Dad, I've made it two hundred dollars a week plus over time. My life just changed.

That's truly remarkable because it was a trajet, the start of the trajectory. Yeah. But I wonder, no doubt, I wonder if it actually might be the second time you came to LA and you stuck it out for two years before you got that call from MGM. Because if you hadn't, if you had called it quits at that point, there would have been no call. Of course, of course, Yes, that's true, very true.

Those are interesting days for sure. Going to the pawn shop. Oh my goodness, that was humiliating. But I did it. But you did it, Yeah, and you got through.

I got through. Right. Are you still in touch with people? Who are you still in touch with? Well?

I just got a call from Tony Thomas the other day, who had spoken to once in forty years, because Disney and ABC News are going to do a special for the fortieth anniversary of the show this. Year for Golden Girls. Okay, believe it or not, forty forty years. Is that possible? I think I'm only twenty five.

It's just my body thinks I'm an idiot. So there it is. You can bleep that out, like where did the time go? I just it's difficult as you look. Back on all the things you've done and all the things you've seen and people you've met.

What for you are the highlights of your career and the things you're able to accomplish in your career. Well, everything that I've done in this business, to me is an accomplishment everything for me. How great is it to get a call from a studio that says so and so producer has requested you come on. That's a big deal. And that happened a few times.

That was a very big deal for me, Like, oh, I didn't have to go searching for anything, I just got that call. That's really great. No, getting married, that's a huge thing to somebody that in this business. To still be married to forty one years later is quite remarkable, considering I used to be the queen of the one night stand back in the day. You know when the most use word of my vocabulary was next.

So you know, what can I say? It was the seventies. Yeah, I consider waking up every day an accomplishment these days, and every day above ground is an accomplishment. You know, it's not our abilities that show who we are. It's our choices that show who we are.

Right, So, you can be the greatest writer or the greatest producer, but if you choose to be an asshole, I have no respect for you because you made that choice. Right. So I. Just every day is to me is just an amazing day. And I look back on my career, which I now say is like World War Two.

It's history, but it's still I not only achieved what my original goal was, which was to work in this business, I actually overachieved. How often does that happen? Dad used to say to me, you know, I'm becoming known as your father. It does it get better than that? It doesn't.

It doesn't. And my sister was became a judge at twenty five, so you know, we we were considering we both lost our mother at an early age. I'm so proud of the two of us for doing what we did in life. It's pretty remarkable. So I'm grateful every day also that I married a man who thinks I'm the funniest person on the planet, so that helps a lot.

That does help. Is there anything you miss about not working in Hollywood anymore? Not a nano second? How does it feel to win an Emmy and Golden Globe? Well?

Did I just talk about overachieving? Do you have one in your house? I have two Emmys in my house? And where did they sit on the mantle? They the mask?

Because when I have young people come over and they see the reality of that, and I always say, do you want to take a picture with it? And they always say yes. It gives them a whole new push. Now they know what's possible. And when I do college lectures locally, like I only go to I would never speak at USC or UCLA because my own story of struggle doesn't appeal or doesn't apply to that.

But for example, I go to Stockton, California. They have a community college there that's about twenty five thousand strong. Okay, A lot of the kids in the media department come from nothing, and they have the most brilliant, brilliant professor who is the most amazing woman I've ever met in my life. She's originally from Costa Rica, and the way she teaches, and the fact of how inclusive and all of that she is of everybody well spoken to that class thirteen times at the end. We have a routine.

The last thing I say in my lectures, I say, here's the last thing I want to say to you before I go. I'm not going to tell you it's going to be easy, but I will tell you it'll be worth it. And out comes the Emmy and they all go out of their minds. And then they line up wanting to have a picture taken with it, and I let each one of them hold it and they feel what they get energy from it. How it's got to wait.

Oh, it's very heavy, they're very heavy. But how how fantastic is that to see their faces light up with such joy of what's possible? Because that's what I always tell them. Don't let people tell you it's not possible. Don't let somebody who probably gave up on their dreams talk you.

Out of yours. Don't don't do that. This is your choice. Don't let don't let somebody take your power away from you. Why would you do that?

Why? Why? Why? And then they get very empowered by that. It takes that outside voice to tell you something sometimes, right, Yes, if your parents are telling you, some of your siblings are telling your best friends, but somebody completely unknown tells you somebody a boom, a light goes off.

Yeah, it's joyful, that's amazing. Yeah. How did you get started doing lectures or speaking to students? How did that come about? It started a really long time ago when I was a script supervisor believe it or not, on soap and I went to Chico State and talked to one hundred and twenty kids and it just started.

And what I love telling them too, is I started as the secretary right. As an example, remember I was a script supervisor on soap and then I got kicked upstairs. The girl who replaced me as a script supervisor was also the script supervisor when I went to Night Court, And during that year or season on My Court, she used to say to me, I just want to I just want to write comedy scripts. Encourage her and encourage her. Well, guess what.

That young girl went on to become the co executive producer of Two and a half Men. Okay, So there's so many stories like that. It's not just me and I tell them, whether it's a music department. One of my roommates right took me in when I was homeless. He came here from Texas because he wanted to be a singing star.

He went on to score every note of music for. Saved by the Bell. I mean, it happens when you're good at what you do. It happens so committed. That's amazing commitment.

Wow. All right, well this has been fantastic. I'm so glad. I've had a good time us too. We have had a blast.

And it's Sharon, it's almost like you were here, right, Yes, it was joyful. I so wish I was. But yeah, we can't. We cannot, really cannot thank you enough for sharing yours with us. It really means a lot.

I mean just mean a lot to our audience, but my goodness, it means a lot to us too, to hear. I'm so glad. I'm so glad. But it just it gives me such joy to be here and to let other people in on how I think and stuff, and because if it affects one person, yeah right, ye. Plus I just love telling the stories, some of which we're not going to tell to roll offten.

Okay, but you know, don't worry, Sharon and I will get them and then they won't be able to tell you listeners right right right, but we'll enjoy them exactly. Yes, yes, yes, yes, all right, we have to let you go. Okay, but don't worry. We're going to keep talking to her and got stories. Thank you everybody for listening for our audiography today.

You can currently watch Golden Girls on Hulu and Disney Plus, and it's available for purchase on Apple TV and Prime Video. And for those who are sick of streaming apps moving everything around, the DVDs might be available at your local libraries. Do check it out, or you can find box sets on DVD at eBay. I'm recommending this short but very interesting TD Milestone series book, The Golden Girls by Kate Brown. And you can check out a book on soap, The Unauthorized Inside Story of the Sitcom That Broke All the Rules by as Burman.

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